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Maryjopodgurski

Managing a failed connection with a teacher

Q. My teacher doesn’t like me. No matter what I do, she doesn’t call on me. I put my hand up and get ignored. She never says anything nice about my work, even when I get a good grade on a test. I told my dad and he said I need to suck it up. I told my gram and she said she would march down ...

Making, maintaining friendships can be difficult

I think I’m the only kid who feels like I do.Like, I don’t fit in, no matter what I do. I feel like things changed when I left elementary school. I had friends to hang out with then.Now, it’s just me.Going hybrid doesn’t help. I can’t really make friends virtually and I don’t know ...

Education matters to me. I know education is more than academics. Socialization, peer competition, sports, theater, concerts, clubs, interactions with teachers and mentors, just hanging out in the cafeteria. So much is different this new school year.I am thrilled to spend time with young ...

Q. I need help with my anger. I’ve been asking you questions since seventh grade, texted you some flat out stupid stuff and some serious questions. I always stayed anonymous and told you to keep my questions private. You did as I asked.I need your wise counsel again, and this time you should ...

Starting the discussion about death, cancer

Q. This is a serious question. Do I tell my boys, ages 6 and 9, that Chadwick Boseman, the wonderful actor who brought King T ‘Challa to life in “Black Panther,” has died? They both adore the movie, their rooms are full of “Black Panther” posters and toys, and we had a “Black ...

Q. You taught me in high school and I still remember how much I loved your classes. I’m a teacher now, and virtual teaching is new to me, so I really enjoyed your column last week. Can you please offer some hints for student participation online?<em>Former ...