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Tough situations for teens

Q.I know something. My stepdad has a girlfriend. I saw him kissing her. So, then I checked his phone. He has a ton of texts to her and they’re about sex. My mom doesn’t know. I don’t know what to do. My stepdad married my mom when I was a little kid, so he’s the only dad I know. I’m ...

Information about HPV vaccination

Q.In your last column, why didn’t you mention getting the vaccination, 26 and under. Gardasil 9 may still protect her boyfriend and prevent other non-HPV16/18 problems, especially oral cancer for him. Our 23-year-old daughter died of HPV-caused cervical cancer.<em>– ...

Diagnosis of HPV requires attention

Q.I went for my annual gyne exam and they said I had cervical changes that are abnormal. The nurse told me they are caused by HPV. Is this the same as herpes? I’ve heard HPV is sexually transmitted. Do I need to tell my boyfriend? Do I have cancer? Part of me doesn’t want to go back for the ...

Adults need to be there with info about sex

Q.I’m a senior. I leave for college next year. My little brother is 13 and in seventh grade. I’ve been answering his questions about sex for a long time. Our parents think he’s too young for information about sex, but I know he’s not. He asks me some pretty tough questions. He hears so ...

Teaching youngsters about consent

Q:I have a 6-year-old boy and a 4-year-old boy. They play very well together. But recently my older son has been touching my younger son in a playful way, but that bothers me and I want both boys to know it is not appropriate, but without making them ashamed. They wrestle and play around, but ...

Teaching children about sexuality

Q.I took your sex ed class at W&amp;J when you first started it. Now, I’m pregnant with my first baby. I remember casually asking you when parents should start teaching their children about sexuality, and you said, “At birth.” Can you help me remember the rest?– Wants to do this ...