LETTER: Words still matter
As a dad of three beautiful and bright children, I’m always amazed when I hear one of them say a new word. Whether it’s their first “dadda” or “momma” or something more sophisticated, it’s always a reminder: language is learned through influence.
Our children are influenced every day – by friends, by what they watch, and most powerfully, by what they hear at home. As parents, grandparents, and guardians, we have an incredible responsibility to be intentional with the words we use. Sadly, our culture has devalued language. Yet words still matter.
I’ve sat with individuals in their later years who can still recall the sting of a careless word spoken by a parent or teacher half a century earlier. These moments shape us – for better or for worse.
Recently I have been deeply concerned as leaders in high office – the president of the United States and the governor of Pennsylvania – use four-letter expletives in public speeches and press conferences. Our elected officials, regardless of party, should model leadership and respect. Can we really not talk about policy without profanity?
Our kids are watching. And they’re learning.
We may not be able to change the words spoken in Washington or Harrisburg, but we can set the tone where it matters most: at home. Let’s teach our kids to walk and talk in an upright way. Let’s remind them that their words matter – that starts with the example set by you and me.
Rev. Pete Linko
McDonald Bible Methodist Church