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The power and responsibility of voting

Q.I had a huge argument with my dad. He said it doesn’t matter if you vote or not. He doesn’t vote. I’m not old enough to vote in the November elections, but I will be 18 in the spring. I intend to register right away. Why do people stop voting? My dad is a good guy. He works, he provides ...

Q.I read your column about sexual assault. It touched me deeply. You answered that 10-year-old so well. I wish I’d known you when I was 10. I’m a male survivor of sexual assault. Sex was never discussed in my home, except crude jokes between my father and his friends. I had no words for ...

Tackling teen stress

Q.I’m stressed, but I pretend I’m not. I want my parents and teachers to think I’ve got everything under control, but I lie awake at night, and my mind is a mess. I stare at the ceiling. I think about what I need to do over and over. I become obsessed with my school assignments. That ...

Sexual assault can take many forms

Q.What is sexual assault? I know about sex, but I don’t understand what this means. I watch the news on my tablet. I read about it there.<em>10-year-old</em><strong>Mary Jo’s response:</strong> What a great question! I’m glad you ...

Why do my parents keep taking my phone away?

Q.Why won’t my parents let me use my phone? I swear I’ve never done anything wrong on it. I’ve never sent a nude or cyberbullied anyone. I seriously stay away from weird sites and I’m smart enough not to go into a chat with strangers. It’s as if my parents read about all the trouble ...

What to do about an unearthed family secret?

Q.I had you for sex ed in the early ’90s. When we were seniors, you taught a class on sexuality and ethics. I still remember it. I have an ethical question now. I hope you can help me sort out what to do. I’m the youngest of three. My next oldest sibling is into family history and bought me ...